Telling your loved one that someone has passed when they keep asking for them can cause confusion, agitation, memory loss, sadness, and disease progression. Instead of telling them about the person's death, talk about the person like they are still here. As hard as that may be, you want to think about the person you care for.

I will never forget Mommy overhearing a convo about a friend who passed, and she started freaking out and crying. I didn’t mean for her to hear it, but it did shift her day. As much as we hate lying. We have to protect our LO. Redirect them and answer with love. _____ is dead, ____passed away, or ______ is no longer here is not the answer.

As always, please use wisdom and discernment. My opinions and suggested strategies are just a guide.

You’ve got this.

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